Hi I’m Audie Olivia
Co-Founder and head Matchmaker at Mingle Mayhem
I work with a select number of Boston, Cambridge, and Somerville professionals who are ready for a lasting partnership and who want a more thoughtful way to get there.
I started Mingle Mayhem years ago as a social experiment. I’m a scientist by day and I couldn’t ignore the patterns I was seeing in my frineds and my own dating journey. Boston is full of intelligent, emotionally capable, relationship-ready people. But the environments they were dating in weren’t designed for depth.
So I built better ones.
Over time, I’ve hosted hundreds of singles, studied the patterns that lead to real connection, and built a trusted, vetted local network of remarkable people who are serious about building something meaningful.
Matchmaking evolved from that work.
A Boutique, Local Approach
This is not a volume-based service. I don’t operate from a national database or rely on mass introductions. I work within a curated, Boston-rooted network I know personally.
Many members of my dating pool have sat across from me for in-depth conversations about their relationship history, communication style, values, blind spots, and long-term goals. I know how they show up. I know who follows through. I know who is genuinely ready.
When I introduce two people, it’s because I believe the alignment makes sense – intellectually, emotionally, and practically.
I take on a limited number of clients at a time to ensure every introduction is considered and every client fully supported.
If Matchmaking Isn’t the Right Fit (Yet)
For some people, full-service matchmaking isn’t necessary right now, and that’s okay.
You can also join my curated dating pool: a vetted, local database of Boston-area singles who are relationship-oriented and open to thoughtful introductions.
Many members start there before deciding whether they’d like more personalized support. It’s a lower-commitment way to become part of the ecosystem and it still benefits from the same intentional, community-driven approach.
Dating Pool – Singles Database
Our vetted Boston dating database for intentional, relationship-oriented singles. While not a personalized matchmaking service, members are considered for curated introductions and exclusive gatherings.
Matchmaking
A personalized, hands-on matchmaking service. We meet in depth, I curate introductions intentionally, and offer guided feedback throughout the process.
Personal Coaching
Dating doesn’t have to be so confusing. Whether you’re figuring out what you want or just need a little boost, we’re here to guide you. Think of us as your cheerleader, confidant, and coach rolled into one.
FAQs
Who are dating services for?
You’re 26–40 and serious about finding a partner
You’re career-focused but emotionally available
You’ve done the apps and feel burnt out
You value intelligence, ambition, and self-awareness
You want quality over quantity
Many of my clients work in tech, pharma, science, medicine, law, or startups. They’re socially competent, thoughtful, and busy.
How does the Matchmaking process work?
It all starts with an in-depth intake session where we get to know you; your personality, preferences, and relationship goals. From there, we carefully match you with individuals who align with your values and what you’re looking for in a partner. Every match is handpicked with thought and care, no algorithms involved.
What makes Us Different
Most matchmaking services operate at scale. Mine operates with proximity.
I know my dating pool personally. Many members have sat across from me for 30+ minutes discussing their relationship history, communication style, values, and goals.
After every event and introduction, I collect feedback. I track patterns. I pay attention to who follows through, who grows, who shows emotional maturity.
When I introduce two people, it’s because:
- Their values align
- Their pace aligns
- Their long-term goals align
- Their personalities complement
- And the attraction potential makes sense
I do not send introductions casually.
How It works
1. Intake Conversation
We meet in person. We talk through your relationship history, patterns, non-negotiables, blind spots, and what partnership looks like for you.
2. Thoughtful Matching
I curate introductions from my vetted dating pool and extended network.
3. Guided Feedback (optional depending on tier)
After dates, we debrief. I offer insight, pattern recognition, and gentle calibration if needed.
The goal is not endless dating.
The goal is clarity and forward movement.
How many matches will I get?
This depends on your preferences and the matchmaking package you choose. Our focus is quality over quantity, so we prioritize making thoughtful introductions rather than overwhelming you with options.
How much does it cost?
We know investing in your love life is a big decision, and we’re here to make it worth it. The cost depends on what you’re looking for whether it’s personalized matchmaking, coaching, or both. During your intake session, we’ll walk you through everything, answer your questions, and help you find the option that feels right for you. No pressure, just a conversation to see what works best.
How do you ensure privacy?
Your trust is our top priority. All your information is kept confidential, and we only share details with your consent. We handle your journey with the utmost care and discretion.
How do I get started?
It’s simple! If you’re not sure where to begin, you can fill out the general interest form below, and we’ll reach out to guide you through the process. Already know what you want? You can select the specific service from the options above and jump right in. We’re here to make it as easy as possible for you to take the first step.